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They Psychological abuse can be damaging, and often taps into earlier patterns in a may also use the excuse that their behaviour was unintentional and that they simply person�� "!s life. It is important that adults seek help and support to prevent the abuse 'lost it'. Alcohol and drugs are often involved in cases of physical abuse and abusive from becoming entrenched. Acknowledging that a relationship is abusive can be a individuals may tell the victim that it was the alcohol/drugs making them act useful call to action. http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/emotional-abuse. violently, not themselves. Barriers to seeking help may arise from the emotional and psychological impact of Living with physical abuse can be extremely distressing, and victims will usually be domestic abuse, as well as practical, social or cultural reasons. Many are also in constant fear that the acts of violence, or worse, will happen again. Whatever the similar to those preventing people from seeking help about other safeguarding degree of physical abuse, there is always a risk of causing a permanent disability, issues. injury or even death. They may include: Escaping physical abuse � � Fear of the abuser and/or what they will do Adults being physically abused should strongly consider seeking help, either by � � Lack of knowledge/access to support services formally reporting the abuse, making an appointment with a GP, or contacting a � � Lack of resources, financial or otherwise dedicated helpline for support. However this can feel like too big a step, so talking to � � Love, loyalty or emotional attachment towards the abuser someone the adult trusts can help. Speaking for the first time about physical abuse can also be difficult, so it might help to write down feelings first or send a letter � � Feelings of shame or failure instead. Finding the courage to open up and talk about suffering is the first step to � � Pressure from family/children/community/ friends breaking away from the abuse and moving on. For victims of physical abuse, � � Religious or cultural expectations. escaping a violent relationship or situation is only the first hurdle. Many may need to attend abuse counselling sessions in order to recover their self-esteem and https://www.tsab.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/LGA.ADASS_.Adult-safeguarding-and- confidence, and ultimately regain control of their emotional well-being. domestic-abuse.-Guide-to-support-practitioners.pdf http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/physical-abuse.html Sources of Help: What is Coercive Control by Jennifer Perry Free E-Book: Psychological Abuse �� SEducating yourself is the first step in stopping abuse - to go Psychological abuse is common, but too few people from being a victim to being a survivor�� �. understand the definition of this well enough to spot it at an early stage, and therefore prevent this from http://www.digital-trust.org/advice-for-dv/cc-behaviours becoming worse. Without the visible signs of physical abuse, psychological abuse can stay hidden for Controlling Behaviour in Relationships Young Adults Toolkit: years. Psychological abuse may start small at first and build into something that can be frightening and https://www.tsab.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Controlling- threatening. Behaviour-in-Relationships-talking-to-young-people-about-healthy- relationships.pdf Signs and symptoms include: � � Exclusion from meaningful events or activities Controlling or Coercive Behaviour in an Intimate or � � Ignoring, imitating or mocking the person Family Relationship Statutory Guidance Framework: � � Insulting or isolating the person � � Name calling https://www.tsab.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Controlling_or_coercive_behaviour_- � � Swearing or yelling _statutory_guidance-1.pdf � � Threatening the person or threatening to take away something that is important. Domestic Abuse Prevention Information Sheet: https://www.tsab.org.uk/key- It�� "!s important to remember that any of these examples of psychological abuse can happen to either a man or a woman. information/prevention/domestic-violence/ 6 Find Support in Your Area: https://www.tsab.org.uk/find-support-in-your-area/ Your Comments If you have any suggestions for these bulletins: 7 https://www.tsab.org.uk/your-comments/ 01642 527263 Ensuring our safeguarding arrangements act to help and protect adults</code></pre> </div> </div> <div id="content-bottom"> <div id="content-bottom2"> <table width="110" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="22%" height="44"><a href="page3.html"><img src="images/previous.png" width="26" height="19" id="Image2" onmouseover="MM_swapImage('Image2','','images/previous2.png',1)" onmouseout="MM_swapImgRestore()" /></a></td> <td width="43%"> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="page1.html">1</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="page2.html">2</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="page3.html">3</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="page4.html">4</a> </td> <td width="35%"><a href=""><img src="images/next.png" width="26" height="19" id="Image1" onmouseover="MM_swapImage('Image1','','images/next2.png',1)" onmouseout="MM_swapImgRestore()" /></a></td> </tr> </table> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div id="right-button"> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><a href=""><img src="images/next_big.png" width="90" height="80" /></a></p> </div> </div> </body> </html>